Sorry Guys I neet to Vent my Girlfriend Problems

This will sound cruel, but I say ditch her. She's 16 and not worth the trouble in YOUR life right now. You're going on 18 and you need to think about YOUR future. Start thinking about college/work or whatever your career goals are. I guarantee it won't be the last girl you speak to. Sometimes the situation just isn't right. In your case, it stinks. In your GF's case, it sucks just as much. The controlling nature of her mother is only going to stress your relationship further and no good will come from it. You two should go your separate ways and get a jump start on life. Sorry for going against the grain here. I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear, I'm going to tell what you NEED to hear.