Now see, she's in the same boat, only you seem to have enough sense with your parenting to see what's right for your daughter. She's a straight A student with a bright future who's begining to resent and pull away from her parents to carve her own path and if they don't start letting her make decisions for herseld, it will be the wrong path.
Before I met her I was a straight a student who smoked pot. I quit because she wanted me to and I respected that. If she leaves I will likely go back to it, NOT to soak up my sorrow but because I NEVER wanted to quit in the first place and I wouldn't have if she hadn't wanted me to.
I see good points and bad points in this, right now it's too early in the morning to respond to all that though. I'll look at it again later today when I can think straighter.