That sucks, you can kill people with your car and get your license back easier than what you've gone through. You have overpaid you debt to the state/society? Wish I had a solution for you, sorry. Good luck.
Depends where you are at, in SW Michigan they hit you with 2nd degree murder and most often get a conviction. My dentist kid got rear ended by a drunk who was being chased by a person who didn't like his bad driving, the drunk was 29 years old and got 30 to 70 years in prison, he be an old man if he ever gets out
Now again, NY state, its far different..not sure about other states