9th Anniversary of my Sister passing, Wife not happy

Johnparts sorry to hear about losing your sister. Sounds like you and your wife have a comunication problem. You two need to talk to each other and show respect for each other. I don't think its a good idea to call each other names face to face or here on this forum. I know I make this sound simple and at times it is tuff but you can't take it back after it is said and it will come around to bite you in the *** down the road. Life is to short to go through it fighting with your mate. You might want to talk to a counselor or minister.