Thanks for the tips. Made it as player1up did, sort of. Cleaned it up and used flux to get the paperclip to stick. Became very strong and I reinforced the all the other pins so they not come loose because some of them you could wiggle around. Made all of them with a "barb" so they can't pull out as easy. Not the prettiest soldering but I'm very happy with the outcome and I hope someone else could use this information too.