63 Dart 904 with rear pump thrust washer question

the rear planetary has a thrust washer behind it...and a thrust washer between the rear planetary and the sun shell or drive shell...the drive shell also has a steel thrust plate on each side of it that is held in by the sun gear....

as you said the front planetary has a thrust washer in it..and if you have not disassembled it...

Thats correct, and also the reason I am having a hard time thinking of what else might be going on.

The drive shell is kinda sloppy compared to what you might think.
It's one of those hard things to explain like "hit it about this hard":D