What did YOU get for christmas (car related)

You are responsible for your kids, until they become adults. When they become adults, they are responsible for themselves! Of course if they need help or advice we give it! But, sometimes they don't want our help, even tho everyone can see they are on the wrong path. Y'all gave them everything you could. He will get it together. I don't know you very well, but from other posts i've seen. You and your wife seem to get along great. That is your blessing enjoy it. He is living his life. Don't let it ruin yours. Sorry for preaching and rambling. But, I've seen my sister do this to my parents, and alot of my battle buddies, are dealing with this same stuff, with their adult children. For what it's worth (almost two cents) lol keep the head up. Merry Christmas to you and your wife.