Neutral Safety Switch

I'm hoping somebody can help me with this problem. To say I am challenged when it comes to electrical problems is a huge understatement.

I bought and installed the Painless C.S.I. wiring harness that is very basic.
Used for charging, starting and ignition.

I have it all wired in and everything works like is should except the neutral safety switch.
I am not running a standard starter relay but through the relays that say 30,85,86,87 on the bottom by the terminals.

See the pic below to show what they say about a neutral safety switch.
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