Forgive me for being ignorant. I learn by doing or seeing.
I would understand if you are getting frustrated.
So, 85 on the "starter relay" goes to the center pin on the NSS?
86 goes to the + side of the toggle switch?
Does the toggle still get grounded?
87goes direct to the starter solenoid on the starter?
I have tried a few scenarios and nothing has worked.
The way I have it wired without the NSS it will start and run but in all gears.