PayPal

Paypal is a bigger convenience for the buyer but the seller is supposed to absorb fees. Got it.

Spot on about what paypal does regarding disputes. Sellers take it in the rear almost all the time. More buyer convenience!

And about building it in, some people complain if they are charged $10 for shipping and the label says $7. Never mind the box/tape/filler materials all cost money. LOL

I didn't say that. The seller can easily adjust the price to include fees. If the seller opts NOT to do that, that's on them. I cannot see anyone who wanted to buy something let 3% get in their way. If it does, they might be the kinda person you don't want to sell to anyway.