Dont loan out your tools

Exactly, You should instead go out buy enough "Participation" Trophy's so they all get one!

nope, there is one behavior award (also known as the "quiet seat price") which is sometimes geared towards boys, sometimes towards the girls
the rules are the same each week, and while i teach my wife keeps an eye on the kids and eliminates them one by one as they break the rules

best part is, if the award is more girly, and a boy wins it, they usually share it or give it to the girls
and the other way around