Wheelie question

What you could do for now is move the ladder bar to the other holes and see what happens. If your going to buy the DA shocks no matter what then you can play around with them when you get them.

What you're looking for is for the car to carry the front end further. As the torque falls off and the car settles down it should settle down more gently. It's not always possible because you usually lose some weight transfer.