Talk to your loved ones.

Been there..Robert makes a very important post. As the oldest living Male in our immediate family I sat the whole Family down and we had serious discussions about this. I've had to ok taking one of my little Sisters off of Life Support because Lupas had devastated her body and her organs were shutting down. A few years later I had to do the same for my almost 101 year old Grama because she was just wore out. She was in the Hospital and unconscious. Dr. said I should consider Hospice. I was holding her hand and when he said that she squeezed my hand and I knew it was time. If we had not had things in order and on paper it would have been much harder. My Wife and I have everything in a irrevocable trust and take a copy of our DNR papers to each Medical facility we are treated at. I'm glad Robert brought this up..It's Important.


Lupus is for real bad. May be one of the most misdiagnosed female dominate illnesses there is.