Disconnect battery when parked?

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The cable on the battery doesn't go to the starter. It goes to the starter relay. There is another smaller wire there that makes all sorts of chit hot. Maybe best to just see for yourself. Open the door so dome lamp is on or better yet pull the headlights on. Remove and replace positive cable at battery. See spark jump. Next try same with neg' battery cable. No spark.
I don't get a spark and it goes straight to the starter with a smaller wire to the relay.