Not true. Colour is mainly dependent on temperature reached at time of ignition and mixture quality and AFR of gas species. ANY time you have an AFR at the plug Richer than stoic Carbon HAS to be left over after the burn proceeds. This carbon is what coats the plugs and indicates what the AFR is at that time. The first stage of the burn is hydrogen the second is carbon. That greyish tinge is most likely exhaust residual left behind due to poor scavenging or too much overlap.