Rocker shims = NO rocker shaft oiling

The problem is the shim itself. The open end of the U is allowing the oil to pump straight out of that gap.....rather than entering the shaft where you want it go. The shim needs to have a round or oval hole so that it seals all the gaps.
Every hyd lifter I have worked with has had well over 0.100" of travel, with the vast majority going to 0.150" or more. The pre-load can be anywhere within this range. So most likely the shims are not needed if they are being used to set pre-load. The lower range of pre-load might be to reduce the effects of lifter pump up, should that occur, but the correct fix is to use stronger springs to control the valvetrain.

So….. you had not enough lifter preload, so you put shims under the rocker shafts. Would that not raise the shafts and decrease the preload even more? Also, decking the heads would increase not decrease the preload.

Am I missing something in your explanation?
Yes maybe I am. "Setting" the lifter preload with stock rocker arms doesn't seem to me to be possible as there is no adjustment.
Reading about how to accomplish this pretty much scrambled my mind as I'm a bit dyslexic. With that in mind let me start over.
Stock rocker shafts, and valves
I had the heads surfaced and 3 angle valve job.
New V258H12 cam/lifter kit.
New 901Comp springs and appropriate hardware.
I'm using a .028 head gasket thinking it will boost my compression up a bit.
Using this info and forgetting the shims, can I theoretically use my stock length push rods?