Am I wrong here?

Thanks, pastortom -
Looks like we're both 'old school'...and I bet your word is your bond and you believe a handshake is a good-enough contract. Too bad the world has gotten away from that.

Unfortunately, old school is only cool when building cars! The world has gotten away from a lot of things that aren't necessarily for the better. Things have changed, people have changed. Too many flakes running around, ruining things for us sane people.

I recently held a car for 3 weeks for a member here that I didn't know except a few phone calls back and forth. I had several other people inquire about the car while I was waiting for him to come up with funding. Fortunately, it worked out great and the demon is in it's new home. But I would have been singing a different story if he wasn't able to come up with the money and I had missed several other potential buyers.

I agree that the OP should have been allowed to view the trailer and make an offer on it. Kinda like a mini auction. But then you open up a whole other can of worms with the first guy on the scene. What about him? He got there first, but the seller should sell it to the original poster?!?

Just like life, business can be complicated.