So now that we are getting reaquanted with my neice (Laura)and her family. She keeps inviting me to the girls basketball. My brother Lauras dad has not talked to anyone since 1988 told them all that it was the rest of the family that hated them. But now that she is a grown adult with her own kids he dad has cut her off so getting reaquainted we are. Now to the main part of the story....here I am a bearded old man watching Jr. High girls play basket ball. Laura coaches so I find myself sitting alone. I can't tell you how many people ask what I am doing there? Makes a man feel wierd.....wierder