"Gunslingers" Chime In..Handgun For Wife

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My police officer friend want's to get a different " up close and personal " back-up and has offered his S & W Detective Special ( 5 shot 38 Special, 1 1/2" ) for $200. He put on a Hogue Monogrip and the weapon fits both mine and my wife's hands very well ( she is petite ). From my limited research $200 seems like a decent deal. Blueing is a bit worn on cylinder but not to the point of corrosion starting. Don't know year of manufacture. Range and safety training included. Will be strictly in home, different room than shotgun. Whatcha think ?
 
It fits her hand. That's a biggie. Range and safety training included for $200. I wouldn't hesitate another minute. A decent gunsmith should be able to re-blue cheap enough, if you decide it's needed
 
It fits her hand. That's a biggie. Range and safety training included for $200. I wouldn't hesitate another minute. A decent gunsmith should be able to re-blue cheap enough, if you decide it's needed


I agree with everything Doug just said. Especially what I highlighted.

I was checking out my buddy's Glock .45 yesterday and we were having this discussion about me getting one similar. There are criteria for me purchasing a handgun: it can't be too big in the caliber range, yet still have power. It also has to be something my wife would be comfortable shooting and that means fitting her hand. She's 6'0" and has bigger hands than I, so that opens up more possibilities, but it's got to be something she is comfortable with.
 
I would definitely say that a small revolver is perfect for anyone for self defense. Very little can go wrong with a revolver, unlike an automatic. One of my favorite weapons I carry is a 45ACP revolver.
 
my ex is 4ft 9 and carries a 44 special with a 3in barrel.She was a good shooter.Hope she still has it.
 
We "slept" on it and discussed again this morning. Considering the short distances inside the home ( I kinda really wanted a little longer barrel ), the hand fit ( major item ), and the price, we're going to buy it.

Thanks Again
 
The S&W is a great value. Don't worry about the finish, the blueing is just a controlled colored rust. Just keep the gun oiled with a light film of oil.

MoparMuscleGuy. are you a full mooner or a 1/2 mooner? (its a gun question)

Whip
 
Home protection-shotgun.

Self protection, go at least .40, 45 better or even .357.

If she is really dainty, go with a 9mm but just hope she don't ever need to stop a large person coming fast.

Carry hydra-shoks, no target loads.

My shotgun has two 3" slugs followed by .oo buck- not playing any games and have a side saddle loaded with 6 extra .oo buck.

Now here come the comments about shooting through walls and killing your own family members....uh, not gonna happen-I hit what I aim at.
 
The S&W is a great value. Don't worry about the finish, the blueing is just a controlled colored rust. Just keep the gun oiled with a light film of oil.

MoparMuscleGuy. are you a full mooner or a 1/2 mooner? (its a gun question)

Whip
I've always been a full mooner sort of guy. I figure if I can't kill my attacker with five shots of 45 cal Hydroshock ammo, I've got bigger problems than a fast reload. :-D
 
Home protection-shotgun.

Self protection, go at least .40, 45 better or even .357.

If she is really dainty, go with a 9mm but just hope she don't ever need to stop a large person coming fast.

Carry hydra-shoks, no target loads.

My shotgun has two 3" slugs followed by .oo buck- not playing any games and have a side saddle loaded with 6 extra .oo buck.

Now here come the comments about shooting through walls and killing your own family members....uh, not gonna happen-I hit what I aim at.

It's the sad sign of the times. 10 years ago my wife, then girlfriend, was "shocked" to learn I was a member of the NRA. With the problems we're having moving closer to our neighborhood I'm happy she agreed to the bedroom shotgun and am thrilled she likes the 38. We'll move up in cal' and numbers as she gets more comfortable with recoil and shot placement. We live in one of the newer houses that doesn't have much to stop a slug so over penetration is a concern. For now the bad guy/s will have to get past the Pit Bull first hopefully providing some lead time. Appreciate all the comments.
 
Got my wife a hammerless Ruger 5 shot 357 that she uses 38 specials in, its simple point and pull double action. I think the S/W is a good choice :cheers:
 
My police officer friend want's to get a different " up close and personal " back-up and has offered his S & W Detective Special ( 5 shot 38 Special, 1 1/2" ) for $200. He put on a Hogue Monogrip and the weapon fits both mine and my wife's hands very well ( she is petite ). From my limited research $200 seems like a decent deal. Blueing is a bit worn on cylinder but not to the point of corrosion starting. Don't know year of manufacture. Range and safety training included. Will be strictly in home, different room than shotgun. Whatcha think ?

My wife has been through several weapons through the years. All revolvers. She has had problems with athritis in her shoulder over time....she's always enjoyed carrying large pocketbooks. We finally found one for her that absolutely does not aggrevate her shoulder at ALL. It is a S&W Air Lite in .357. It's a large caliber, yes, but she carries a .38 special hollow point load that is much more comfortable to shoot. The pistol has a scandium frame and titanium cylinder. It is 12.5 ounces loaded. She loves it. It was not cheap, but she's safe and not in pain anymore.
 
Yes I think money wise that S&W is a good deal. I also would get some +P shells for that .38 for more knockdown power.
 
200 bucks sounds like a good deal on a S&W. 38's loaded with Hydrashock or Golden Sabre are decent, but Magsafe and Glaser also pack a mean punch, have awesome energy transfer, and won't go through walls. Maybe even put a Crimson Trace grip on it?

Spaz, my 870 has 2 #4 buckshot, then 2 00 buck, then 2 slugs. All 3inch mags:snakeman: 45 is loaded w/ Golden Sabres
 
Plenty of energy transfer and will go through walls.

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If your wife has small hands this would be perfect.

The SwissMiniGun
According to Guinness World Records, the title of the smallest working revolver in the world goes to the Miniature Revolver C1ST, manufactured by SwissMiniGun [source: Daily Mail]. The tiny firearm measures just more than 2 inches and weighs less than 1 ounce. It fires bullets made by SwissMiniGun that are 2.34 mm caliber, rim fire cartridges and come as either blank rounds (which don't produce a bullet) or live rounds (bulleted) [source: SwissMiniGun].

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If your wife has small hands this would be perfect.

The SwissMiniGun
According to Guinness World Records, the title of the smallest working revolver in the world goes to the Miniature Revolver C1ST, manufactured by SwissMiniGun [source: Daily Mail]. The tiny firearm measures just more than 2 inches and weighs less than 1 ounce. It fires bullets made by SwissMiniGun that are 2.34 mm caliber, rim fire cartridges and come as either blank rounds (which don't produce a bullet) or live rounds (bulleted) [source: SwissMiniGun].

Yes! Finally a revolver for my toddlers. LOL. :-D
 
Thanks to all for input......deal went down this evening so the S&W 38 is ours. Range and training for my wife in near future. In the mean time a police officer is still looking for his new back-up. Now I don't think he is totally "without" but let us all keep a serving officer in our thoughts for uneventful watches.
 
I'm glad you purchased the S&W. That's a great price on a fine piece. When I was a reserve deputy I carried a S&W 357 Model 66 for a duty weapon for years, then we went to semi auto's. 40's & 45's
 
Congrats! I have a S&w .38 Special, always told it was a Detective model. It holds 6, and has a 2" barrel. The grip is original walnut and I don't want to change it. I got it from my Dad, he got it in the early 60s. It's my favorite gun, even with the skinny grips. I don't like magnum rounds for personal defense. I'm planning on getting something that shoots .45, but I'm also not crazy about autos. A home defense weapon may sit untouched for years and when you need it to work it had better work. I've had jamming issues with a few autos and the cause on every one of them was the spring in the clip getting weak from sitting fully loaded for long periods. I could open the top of the clip, streatch the spring and they would work flawlessly for a few loads, then start jamming again. the only cure is to leave the clip mostly empty untill you use it (I do that on my target pistol), but who wants a home defense gun with 2 rounds in the clip?
Pump shotguns and revolvers are the way to go, for me anyway, I know there are some great autos out there, but I just feel safer with fewer things to go wrong.
 
After buying the .38 I have been told by my cop friend that the piece has been thru two police careers in Chicago and he dropped off a freebie shoulder holster that came with the piece. Considering the age and possible history I'm going to pay S & W the $50 to get an official history. And considering the age of the weapon I'm going to give my friend the two boxes of +P ammo I bought but think it better not to fire thru the older pistol. He is getting a similar but newer weapon chambered for .357 but due to "policy" can only load with .38 .

Again, thanks for all the input and informed opinions.
 
After buying the .38 I have been told by my cop friend that the piece has been thru two police careers in Chicago and he dropped off a freebie shoulder holster that came with the piece. Considering the age and possible history I'm going to pay S & W the $50 to get an official history. And considering the age of the weapon I'm going to give my friend the two boxes of +P ammo I bought but think it better not to fire thru the older pistol. He is getting a similar but newer weapon chambered for .357 but due to "policy" can only load with .38 .

Again, thanks for all the input and informed opinions.

Abosolutely and positively do not shoot 38+P rounds in a revolver chambered for .38 spl unless the manufacturer says it's OK and it is written somewhere. Good move bargeahead.

I have a .357 mag snubby and I'm finding out that the pistol is just too small for my hands as the trigger releases the hammer only after the tip of my trigger finger touches my thumb on other side of the grip (I have to pull the trigger with the second joint. It's a creepy feeling to have the cylinder rotate, stop and then nothing happens during slow controlled fire as I feel that I've pulled the trigger as far as I can when my index fingertip touches the other side of my hand. Not so much a problem under rapid fire at 10' but dang, what if I need to be 1" accurate at 10 or 15 yards?

I hate to give up the concealability of that weapon but after a few months of firing it I'm finding flaws I never noticed at first. Once I got home from the range today I filled the cylinder with snap caps and found that I could literally rotate through all 5 cylinder bores and not have it release the firing pin unless I yanked the trigger all the way back past when I felt the tip of my finger hit my hand. Weird.

This was after I qualified with the revolver too. I never noticed it before as slow fire was NOT part of my training for a CCW. Either I'll need to bring it to a true, qualified gunsmith that can alter the timing and bring the firing pin release forward (there's many that are nothing more than parts replacers. Shoot, I can do that...) and that is a very pricey proposition or just go back to my favorite auto.... A Glock 23 in .40 S&W fitted with Meprolight tritium sights. I had one that never, ever failed to fire for me after thousands of rounds and I could kick a can around with it at 15 yards with shots spaced in the 2 second range. It's just that much harder to conceal though.

In summary, I just thought I'd give you the benefit of my experience in regards to a small self-defense handgun. Your S&W and your and your wife's body type may never have the same issue I have. A handgun is a very personal thing and what works for one person may not work for another even if the initial impression are good. The grip angle on my revolver is great for reducing recoil BUT my instructor put a laser on my revolver and shooting from the hip involved leaning way back like in the old westerns. That's just one more movement I'd have to make in a super pressured situation that I don't wan't to have to think about. We did the same with his Glock and I was spot on every time. He even said "Joe, you really should think about getting another Glock. Your life may depend on it..." Like a dummy I didn't heed his advice and months later, I realize he was right.

Just a few thoughts is all and I hope that I'm not confusing you and giving you any doubts. I personally feel that training is absolutely the way to go and I hope that you both will attend. After training, keep shooting, and shooting, and shooting. The 4-5 positions of a proper draw need to become reflexive and you both need to build a muscle memory. You both will eventually come to a realization that this is or is not the right weapon for you both. :)
 
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