she is not my mom.....

Daredevil, that was probably tough to say, and will likely be tough to hear. But I'm with you on this.


To put it another way, this might be the time to excersize some independance, and trying to make a go of it on your own, Mopardude. Whenever I have a problem, I look at it from the angle of what can I do to resolve it? When you put the blame or responsibility on someone else (even when rightfully earned), you are forefiting your ability to make something happen, and thereby making yourself a victim. I know it seems harsh, especially coming from a stranger. But I'm talking about myself here, do with it what you wish. Even though life is not going your way right now, you CAN resolve the issue.

Wishing you the best of luck.