harmonic damper question

I will be running a 360 with stock heads kb 107's, rpm airgap intake and 750 demon with headers and electronic ignition, at what point will a oem replacement damper not do the job and the need for a high performance one be needed? this will be a street motor with somewhere around 10 to 1 compression. the machine shop will be balancing this motor but i can't afford the mallory for balancing which they said will be $350.00 more, so they said get the externally balanced flexplate with the cutout in it and a externally balanced damper and they can finish the balancing, is this still considered an internally balanced motor?
$350.00 to balance your motor??? I paid $250.00 and I am sure most everyone here would agree it is WAY WAY worth it, the better dampner you have the longer your engine will last?? most likely that is correct, the added harmonics of it NOT being balanced Internally is what kills the engine over a long period of time, and why pay $80.00 for the B&M flexplate?? you can use the stock one IF you balance your engine, spend the $$$ you wont be sorry. IMO thats the only way to go,