I,m sure he can defend himself. He asked for opinions and he got mine. I dont know why you feel you have to strike out at me. Anyhow it doesnt matter as I dont care what you think. I will keep doing as I have done. Sorry what I said bothered you but he asked for opinions and he was a class enough individual that he listened to what I had to say and didnt take it personal. In earlier posts I pointed out he was in a position to help others and other options were available. I am glad he cares enough to try and experience things to understand the best way to help. Sorry that you have such a dim view of my opinion but thats life. Everyone will not agree with you. Sorry to have offended you but I will not apoligize for my views on life. DD