I must be a crabby old SOB

I know what you guys are going through. It's unfortunate that after both of your parents are gone, most siblings split to spend time with their own children (happened to me too). It kinda bothered me the first year after. Then I got to thinking about it, and I think it happens to most familys. Your parents are your most comon bond with your siblings. After I thought about it some more, I don't remember seeing my aunts & uncles coming over very often for the holidays after my Grandparents passed away. Maybe it's the "natural seperatation" for the second time? The first would be you growing up and leaving your parents to start your own family. I wouldn't hold too much resentment towards them, as time heals all of that BS that happens when you sort through an Estate.