Hey guys...it's been awhile.

I agree with what has been said here, the only thing I would add is, in my experience one of the best ways to fight depression is through exercise, it releases endorphins which are way more effective than any prescription anti depressant with no negative side effects, if you cant work on your lower body work on your upper body and stamina instead, anything that gets your heart and lungs working harder will help you feel better and even lose some of that 40 lbs you put on, coming home from the gym after a good workout you are going to look at your self and your life differently and so is your wife, and if that isn't reason enough I dont know what is