His response wasn't appropriate either. I forgot to mention that. The whole situation was just bad, and the only part I disagree with you about is that there was no point in criticizing her appearance (well, and I think the reporting/complaining should have been done privately, but that's not a major disagreement). Part of maturity is knowing when it's appropriate to comment and when it's appropriate to just keep your mouth shut. When it involves someone's appearance and you don't like it, that's ALWAYS one of those times to just keep your mouth shut.