brighter head lights?

people complain how bright they are. they tell me to turn off my high beams, but they are off.

That means your headlamps are not correctly aimed, and that means they're dangerous. Set them carefully according to the "VOL" instructions at http://www.danielsternlighting.com/tech/aim/aim.html . A properly-aimed H4 headlamp produces less glare to other drivers than a properly-aimed sealed beam, because of the better beam focus.