Pettybluedart,
She noticed a change in upper managment actions. Now I'm not there to see this so I don't know. I think the thing is that she is worried and I don't want to have it consume her. You know? At this point you are doing nothing but jumping to conclusions on something that has not even happened yet.
I really do understand where she is coming from, I do, and I know inside she is trying to be prepared in the event it comes to an end. I just keep drawing off of my own experience which may or may not be the correct parallel to draw from. I mean I still harbor some resentment, but in the end I owned up to my responsibility for my actions and when I made the decision to speak, I told them what the needed to hear, not what they wanted to hear. Ultimately it is not about me. I wanted to hear some other points of view here, because I know I would play it differently than her.
