Sacred poo (i.e., holy sheet!), Ron Francis gets most of fifty bucks for that pathetic handful of wire and no-name relay? What a joke. My opinion of Ron Francis continues to drop.
I was told that with these bulbs I wouldn't need the relay and therefore didn't get it.
You certainly don't need that relay. It would do about 1/3 of the job; it would take the workload off the headlamp switch but would leave the factory's too-thin feed and inadequate ground wires. But RF is wrong, you definitely need headlamp relays (real ones done up properly as in the two links I posted above), even with headlamps of standard wattage like the H6024NH, if you are to get full power to the lamps and see properly at night.