Do what the weekend cowboy wannabes do here {there's a name for their sport but damned if I can remember it LOL} light load by hand ,they dress up in costumes and do that quick draw shooting but have to hit a man sized target at about 25 ft or so, if your only shooting 20+ feet try 50 grains or even less , just load a bunch of em so she can practice enough to learn to compensate for drop , I swear some of these guys load so light the bullets bounce off a cardboard target LOL