It all came to a head yesterday.

340plot said
It is not calous at all. You and wife tried your darnest, but she is/ may be beyond help right now.

It may take a life changing experience for her to see through it all, or as hard as it sounds, may cost her life.
Just know that you have done everything for her from within your own heart, and i am sure you have kept her alive this long.
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Jack,

I think plot has wrapped it all up pretty well with his comment. As parents (or grandparents), we do all we can to prepare our children for what's ahead. At some point they have to begin making decisions on their own. All we can do is hope they make the right ones. And pray...