It all came to a head yesterday.

Even though you know you have done the right thing, you must feel that you may have made the wrong one. It is unfortunate that sometimes we must let loved ones make the wrong decisions in order for them to learn on their own what is right and wrong. As much pain as it is causing you, I believe also that you made the correct decision. There is only so much that you can do to help someone that wants no help. Unfortunately, as Plot and others have said, it may take something serious for her to realize the error of her ways, and all you can do is hope and pray that whatever it is, the reprecussions of her actions allow her to realize the errors of her ways, without seriously impacting the rest of her life.

Take care, and remain steadfast.

Grant