Sorry Guys I neet to Vent my Girlfriend Problems

There is good advice here. Being happy on your own is key and not relying on anyone or anything else (money, etc.) to make you happy.

At church, my pastor often says "It is ok to have the things of the world, but don't let the things of the world have you."

As long as she is living with her parents, respect what they want, even when she is 18. When the time comes and she is paying for her own place and supporting herself, then she can set whatever rules she wants.

Most of us have been there and are just giving honest advice (to help you from making any bad choices). Best advice I can give is to ask God for guidance. Things will just work out.