Neutral Safety Switch wiring

So I'm about 35% into rewiring my demon but have a simple question and a strange problem. The question is: on my wiring instructions it has the middle of the three wores on the Neutral safety switch going to the starting solenoid. But it does not tell you where to run the other two wires. I'm assuming one is for the back-up lights and one is ground: but what's what?
And as for my strange issue: so my new harness is pretty much made for GM switches, column, ect. So I'm spliced a GM column connector to my Mopar one and got GM dimmer and headlight switches installed. But when I hit the turn signals, the hazards come on. The hazards still work when the switch on the column is pulled. And I SWEAR I DO NOT have the wires crossed on the column where I spliced the wires. Anyone have any good insight??