Stalling at idle in gear

I'm dealing with a similar problem. Does your car try to push you forward at idle when it doesn't quite stall or as it is stalling? Does it NOT do this in reverse? Just curious. We may have the same problem. I believe mine is due to my idle being too high as crazy as that sounds. But, I have some other problems forcing me to keep the Idle higher than it really should be. I will closely watch this thread as I try to fix mine. BTW, Most if not all late 70's & up converters used lock-up for fuel economy.