Stalling at idle in gear

Dodge Freak, you think that my problem is a result of the stall speed being too low?
3000 seems kind of high, I was thinking I needed closer to 2500.
The car is a street car, going to be a daily driver eventually.
Is there a chart or something I can look at to determine the stall speed I need? I know TCI had one on their website at one point but I can't find it anymore.
I think I'm going to give A&A Trans a call tomorrow morning and see what they have to say.
Thanks