just cant get the car to run right

I have some ideas. I hope they help. I have the same 2bbl/318 set-up on a '74 and I am having some idle/surging issues that I have been solving. I suspect you may have more than one problem.

First, I would do what has been suggested above: check for vacuum leaks.
Next, you may have an ignition problem: too much advance. Reason? You have backfire.
Once you are sure your ignition timing is correct, I recommend going on to the carb.

You may have a carburetor adjustment problem. Because you have such early timing, your throttle plates are probably too far closed with the car adjusted to idle specs. With the very high manifold vacuum, your idle mixture adjustment be at a none ideal place. Do a "best lean idle" adjustment.

Good luck. I have a leaking brake booster that I will be replacing this weekend. Then I am going to solve the "lean and retard" emissions control mentality: Overhaul the carb with the next bigger jet and lighter distributor advance springs.

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