In need of some prayers

On the way, Bill.
My wife will be married 21 years next month and not all of them have been happy ones. Second marriage for both of us.
Lots of similarities in our first marriages that we both learned from but there's still been enough rocky patches in our marriage that it didn't look like it would make it.
Hang in there and communicate with each other. Talking to others you trust (clergy, etc.) can also help.
You'll work it out.