Anyone ever dealt with a C.O.D.?

Hi guys im looking To buy something over the internet Scary right? well anyways he does not accept paypal? who doesnt accept that these days? anyways... Im Looking For people on both ends of the stick.

Have you ever sent something cod?
Have you ever recieved?
Does the post office call me or drop me a note when it arrives?
Can i Pay with a card?
Also can i inspect the item prior to payment?

I am lil bit suspicious of this deal... Since he was going to "send it monday as long as i sent him a check or money order on monday! thanks Guys!