need trans help! completely lost on this one.

See if you have a Trans-Star dealer nearby, they'll have everything you need. If not, find out where your local tranny shop gets their parts. Check with 4 or 5, and go with whatever outfit gets used the most. Since ther'll always be some little doodad that wasn't included in the kit, it's a major timesaver to be able to get the parts locally.
I'd never rebuilt a tranny before last summer, and couldn't believe how easy it was. $600-$800 my eye! I'll keep that in my pocket.