Dad FTW
I agree not in my house. also the point I was trying to make was kids are people they learn to adapt quickly. They still have needs that only the parents can provide so they play along, ends to a means. If they haven't learned respect by there mid teens good luck. sure you may get along it doesn't mean you have there respect.
You want to rear a child properly GIVE them what they need and make them EARN the things they want, and start at an early age.