This is what the pump assembly looks like from the outside:
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and inside:
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The connector I used is a Conxall/Switchcraft pn:4182-3SG-300
(mates with Conxall/Switchcraft pn:3182-3PG-3DC). Both are available from Digikey.
One pin is used for the sender and the other 2 are for the pump power and ground.
I used fuel tank sealer around the soldered pins and connector flange for added insurance
against leaks.