Evens engine harness, not made right?

The MyMopar diagram you are looking at shows BOTH halves of the connector on the same page, you are looking at part of it backwards. You really need a factory manual. On the MyMopar diagram, find the section of the connector with "M" in it, and notice there is a connector beside it, the mirror image.

The fuse link connector may have been damaged and bypassed?? Can you find the fuse link from the start relay and follow it? Anything look modified?

Here's the proper engine bay side view of the bulkhead connector: