Can I rant

runnnnnn man, sounds like you are in need of a mother....all the things she does for you...that's no reason to be with anybody. Why not do it yourself. Don't get me wrong, i went thru the same thing...I had to hide lots of things when I got married. After a few years of being married, I didn't want to deal with her when I did or bought anything to do with my hobbie. The walls were getting smaller and life is too short to be walking on broken glass everytime you want to enjoy your passion. Love her to death, is a big statement! Take a few days and think Hard about that one, seriously. Good luck! ps: no disrespect to my ex-wife, she's a good person and an excellent mother of my kids. ;)