73 dart...B body 8.75...what size wheel/tire

Depends on what year B-body housing you have. There are Five different versions, all different widths and spring perch location...

B BODY
'62-'63= 53 1/4" (And '64 Max Wedge)
'64 = 55 5/8" (Exc. Max Wedge)
'65-'67= 54 1/4"
'68-'70= 54 15/16"
'71-'74= 57 7/8"
'71-'73 wagon= 59 7/16"

This should be easy to figure out once you identify which one you have.

I run a FACTORY 8 3/4" rear housing, and I fit a 15x8 rim, with 4.5" backspace, with 255 60r15 tire, Perfectly on the back of my 72 dart.

"Googling" '8 3/4 rear end dimensions' tells us that;

Factory A-body flange to flange is 52 5/8"...
...so just figure out the difference in width flange to flange, divide it by two, and you will have how much longer the housing 'sticks out' from the factory A-body location...

For example.
If we go with the 65-67 B-body housing, the difference in overall flange to flange length is 1 5/8". Divide that by 2, and you get 13/16". That is how much more the tube will stick out past factory A-body housing location.

So you need a wheel that is roughly 13/16" more backspace than the baseline. I used 15x8 with 4.5" BS as my baseline since I know that fits centered in the wheel housing.

May sound confusing but play around with it on paper and it works out well. I'd run a 5"-5.5" backspace wheel and that will get you close to center, depending on how wide you order the wheel.

What about the difference in standoff distance between SBP and BBP?

Look at teh sticky, top of this forum about wheel/tire combos.