Spending less time on FABO

This is my little rant. Before I came to FABO, I was restoring a Triumph Spitfire. My forum there was so helpful, and no one had any negativity about your posts or any weird stuff you wanted to do. They were there to help and encourage you any way they could. When I first came to FABO, I felt it was different than that but still very helpful. For the last few months I have been more and more disillusioned with every post I post or read. There is so much infighting among the responders that the original post is soon forgotten as everyone bitches about the other persons reply. It has gotten so bad that I rarely come on this site anymore, and I once used to love coming here. I am regretting my Gold membership and I know I won't renew it. What was once a great, helpful site has, for me anyway, devolved into negative infighting that I can't stand. If I wanted that in my life I'd spend more time with my kids. I know I can't be the only one to feel this way. Is it just me or do we too often get off the subject and pick each other apart?

You should have seen my help thread for getting me some parts. The insults just flew. Fabo sucks.It used to be a nice place to be,and before the economy tanked I was diagnosed with M.S,and posted about it. I had some guys offer to help by sending parts,and some even offered to come up and help get the car done.The topic went to 8 pages! Then someone (strokerscamp) started a help thread for me to get me some parts,but I ended up with only about 4-5 guys actually sending stuff,and the rest just insulting me. The guys that helped me were like me,disabled.So if you really,really want to know what kind of person is here,thier mostly the type that kicks you when your down.Probably the type that spits on street people.

And before you go ff saying Im a liar or faking it,I have all types of medical evidence on file with my Doctor to proove it. And my wife also has M.S ,got diagnosed before me

We are so screwed. But noone here cares,except for a few.