Drinkng problems

People are who they are. Their faults are the baggage they bring.
Look at it this way.. She's going to ask you to change your self ( like get A-bodies out of your life for example ) then she would be willing to try to develop some sort of relationship... What would your responce be ?
It goes both ways. If you hardly know her you cant ask her to or expect her to change for you, not yet anyway.
The love has to be there first, Wheather it comes from a friend, relative, self, or God,
Love is the tool used to inspire change in others.The effort is for their benefit not our own. We've all tryed it, we often suceed. God has the better track record.
I'll stop there,
before I'm compared to Doctor Phil LOL