paying a sellers paypal fees

Paypal has its own set of rules....when you convert currency its usually at a loss, plus fees to deposit into my bank acct. Yes I ask any buyers to mark as "gift" to cover the fees, or to add a few bucks to cover the fees. But when I buy anything, I also mark as gift, so there is give and take at both ends. Just my opinion, but I dont see it as a big deal and if you dont want to mark as "gift" add a few $$ to cover the fees. I have never had an issue as a seller and nobody squawk about marking my payment as gift