It seems as if you are coming from the perspective that people aren't trustworthy and that you are doing them a huge favor allowing them to purchase your part. You must feel really important that you can't wait two days for a MO to arrive. LOL.
i don't trust anyone to send money.. money talks man.. when i'm selling something its because i want to buy something else. its first here with the money gets the part. nothing personal,just business. if you don't like it thats fine then don'y buy my part. but don't sit there and cry about the fees. and missing out on a part. it is what it is man..
have had it happen way too many times over the years.. yea yea yea i want the part, i'll send the money no problem.. only to find out they never do..
and actually.. yes if i have the part at a good price (all my stuff is priced well) i am doing them a favor by selling it to them.. they need it right? i have it right? perfect match.. now show me the money or you don't get my part. see how simple that is..