life changing

i think marriage would be a great idea, but then again, i am so conservatively Christian i could have lived 400 years ago and still be considered conservative

at the same time, i dont think getting married because you have a child is the right thing to do, because i dont think going through the motions that got her pregnant in the first place before you got married is the right thing to do
again, very conservative here, not trying to lecture you

i'd imagine if i were a woman a ring would be the ultimate show of commitment
(speaking as a brother, i would love for my sisters baby-daddy to marry her, even though she'll never admit to wanting it and her and i do not share the same religious views)

BUT, i really dont want to take away from your exciting news, so if this is turning into a religous debate i'll be glad to delete this, just say the word