got it started today hooray

the harness came from hotwire and they flashed the ecm i am calling them tomorroe to see if they have any suggestions i am wondering if i disconnect the wires from the tb will it start and run or not cause i think that its getting a signal to open the tb as soon as it starts

That would be easy enough to check by looking at the throttle body while someone else cranks the car. If it stays open the amount you posted in your picture (the normal amount to idle) then that's not your problem. If it's revving up to 5k with the throttle blade closed you have one serious vacuum leak. Can't tell much from the pictures.
-Jon